The panel of experts (both local and national) discussed factors which prevented victims from getting help; how we could hold abusers accountable and how we could more effectively intervene as a community. 

After identifying the issues behind victims not coming forward and abusers not being held accountable (this included victims not knowing whether they were being abused; not knowing how to get help; not having the financial stability to leave their abuser etc), we then focussed on how we could combat domestic abuse. Three key points came out from our discussions:

1. ‘We believe you!‘ must become our slogan. There must be an open culture where victims are made comfortable to say they were harmed without the fear that they will not be believed;
2. There needs to be a multi-agency approach to tackling abuse, by developing relationships between all key bodies, within the Borough, which deal with domestic abuse. Law firms, the police, local partners (including charities) and more, must all work together to build a secure network for victims; and
3. The Borough needs to develop an attitude of ‘It is our business!‘ Imagine what a difference it would make if we each took the time to speak to our neighbours and to listen without judgement when concerns are raised. It could be the difference between a victim opening up and asking for help, or holding it in and living in silence.

The multi-agency approach, especially, will create a more cohesive way to battle domestic violence within our Borough. If a victim (and an abuser) could see physical signs of our stance against domestic violence (e.g. via the same posters at each location where help could be sought) then the message will be clear – the Borough is against violence and help is here if needed.

With this new approach to tackling domestic abuse, we can succeed if we work together.